“An invisible red thread connects those that are destined to meet, regardless of time, place, or circumstances. The thread may stretch or tangle, but never break.” ~ Chinese Proverb
I believe we are all connected to each other. Love brought you here; and LOVE will be what helps you continue to grow and lean into life.
Love for self, Love for others, Love for life!
My first husband Mike died in 2011, beyond the obvious missing of him I missed what he helped make me into. I wasn’t sure if I could love myself enough to be the woman he knew I was and could be, though I knew I had to try to find that woman. I have learned over the years of putting myself first occasionally that I LOVE me! Finding me again helped me love my new life in a wonderful and beautiful way so that I could live the life that I had dreamed even if Mike wasn’t here for it.
Now I am purposeful in my time focused on me. I found what works for me is going to a yoga class, reading, spending time at the lake, vacations focused on relaxing and Modern Widows Club. Every one of us has things we can do to mindfully heal ourselves and love ourselves, though it takes
time and purpose to find what works for you.
I encourage you to lean into that love that brought you here and to the love that will help you create and grow into this life that is before you.
Blessings,
Lyn
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